I have a friend and its name is competitive. I guess I see this as a friend, most of the time, and an enemy at other times.
Competition is my friend because I don't like to be the person who holds others back, in life. I enjoy being somebody who others can count on to do exactly what I said I was going to do. I like to accomplish things, whatever they may be, in a timely fashion. When a project begins to drag on, it becomes less enjoyable.
Now, I stated that there are times when competition can be my enemy. When I become over-zealous, I feel like I neglect to see some of the positive parts of the 'journey.' We hear the phrase, "stop to smell the roses." I believe that wholeheartedly. When competition plays a role in the different facets of life, it’s easy to trample over the top of the roses that are there to smell, and enjoy.
Like everything else in life, the ability to balance is a key factor. I believe that being competitive is not necessarily a bad thing, especially when it’s against your own abilities and skills. I also believe that balancing one's efforts, in accomplishing those things that must be completed, is vitally essential.
I am going to make a concerted effort to slow down and look to see the scenery around. The joy is in the journey. Of that truth I am certain.
The proper use of competition helps to drive and motivate. I want to be a positive contributor.
