My thought today, has a split audience, with differing opinions, but I feel strongly about my own personal belief on this issue, and wish to share.
The display of affection is both healing and needed in order for one to feel loved in completeness. I don't believe that there is a time or a place, per se, for the display of affection between family members to be inappropriate. I will give a kiss and a hug to my wife, children, parents, and siblings in the presence of anyone in any place. That is appropriate at any time!
I sat downstairs and sang songs to our sons, this evening. As our youngest child, Danny was falling quickly into sleep, I held his hand as I sang three of his favorite songs. The touch of his hand on mine was powerful. I felt grateful that he wanted to hold my hand.
I have enjoyed many times holding Becky's hand throughout our marriage. I have enjoyed that she has never shunned my display of affection. We have been blessed with her touch without ever worrying where we were at or who was in our presence.
Many years ago, while at a church meeting, Becky and I kissed. An individual approached us about whether we thought that appropriate that we would kiss in public. Becky and I both gave a look of disbelief that anyone would ever question that. I wish more people would publicly display their affection for one another. I'm not talking about 'making out' in public. It is okay to hold hands, give a loved one a hug and kiss, or even kiss your spouse.
I have spoken with people that wish someone would show them, openly, that they love them. They're talking about the need for someone to show some affection.
My dad serves the community of Sacramento through the Interfaith Council. The representation from many different faiths makes his opportunity very rewarding. He tells about some of the elderly people he visits with and how much they enjoy when he comes to talk to them about Jesus. He isn't afraid to give hugs to these people. I am so grateful for his efforts!
I hold the belief that if there is anyone on this planet who needs a hug from someone, I will do that for anyone. I am grateful that I was raised to display affection. The world needs more of the Christ-like display of touch.
