Becky and I went and participated in a youth activity at the church. The sixteen and seventeen year old boys and girls (Priests and Laurels) had an activity on dating. Becky and I were asked if we could be part of the 'panel' that the youth could ask questions to about anything dealing with dating. It was a lot of fun to be a part of that and to have our oldest, Natalie, be there as part of the youth group. Good questions were asked and the two other married couples including Becky and I enjoyed the evening. The reaction from the kids seemed like they were genuinely pleased with how the evening went. I hope that they will take away something from that night and never forget it. If they will implement even one thing that they heard, I believe they will be better off.
I have thought about the constant dating scene that Becky and I have maintained in our marriage. That aspect keeps things very exciting and it gives us an opportunity to be together, with no other outside interruptions. We love our children so much but we need our date time, just with each other.
If you're not currently taking the time to date, do so now. The kids will always have lots of needs. There will always be housework to do and projects to complete but the strength of a couple's relationship is dependant upon the effective use of time, together, just the two of you.
I love Becky with all of my heart. I am grateful that she loves me. That knowledge, alone, makes every day worth it. It is easy to find the motivation to live life to its fullest and to do the things that make her proud of me. It is a joy to be with her and to feel of her love and complete devotion to me. Thanks for a great life! You are my best friend.
