Tuesday, January 31, 2012

Think Positive

Some days are a struggle to think positively.  Today seems to be one of those days, for me. 
I recently read an article that stated the results from a survey taken where one thousand people were polled.  This question was asked of each individual.  "What do you do at the beginning of your day to establish a positive mind set?"  There were a variety of answers but the overwhelming winner was, "I tell myself that the day is going to be good."  I about laughed right out loud because I thought that people were going to expect some sort of magical answer.  If I would have been polled, I would have been with the majority.  I firmly belief, (this was taught to me in my childhood by my parents) that each one of us has to be the controller of whether the day is good or bad.  Nobody else can dictate that outcome for us.
I have said it before but I have the luxury of being married to Mrs. Positive herself.  She knows what it means to have mind over matter.  I appreciate that outlook immensely.
For those who are reading this, today, who are having a less than extraordinary day, my advice to you is think of something that has blessed your life and changed who you are for the better.  There is that one time for all of us.  Sometimes we need to review our happiest times to remind us that life, is in fact, a pleasant existence.  Like the survey taught, "I tell myself that the day is going to be good!"  And it will be.
Those of you who are having a great day I applaud you for your effort in making the day what is. 
I must admit that just since I sat down to write this small piece, I already feel better about the second half of my day.  I appreciate my life and those people in it that bring me the greatest joy.  I have much to be grateful for and you do too.  Remember to make the most of the moments in your life.  They come and go so quickly.